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Stalker Guys, I'm not ******** around today. Most of you may not know but I DID have an actual stalker-girl at on point. Let me give you the run down. ~She wouldn't stop calling me. Cell phone, house phone, cell phone, house phone, repeat, repeat, repeat. ~She'd show up at my house uninvited. ~She'd show up at my SCHOOL (I was a freshman, she was in seventh grade). ~She knew my class schedule. She once showed up during P.E. and started yelling "I love you Woofy!" (my nickname) across the track when I was running the mile. ~She would invite herself everywhere. ~She would sleepover all the time on weekends. ~She found out my e-mail address after she moved away, and I had only given out to one person. And that person hated her. ~She told me she had a crush on me. Even after she moved, she kept calling and e-mailing and telling me that. And when I got my first boyfriend, she got mad. The offender's name is lauren. Well, I was walking around 4th St. today with Kai and Maria, since we were job hunting. We were heading back to the bus stop to go home, when this girl starts calling after me. Girl: [Triforce-Kun], [Triforce-Kun]! Finally, I turn and look. She's standing on the green (a bunch of grass) in front of the bank. I look at her, slightly puzzled. She looked like some girl I used to know named celina, but I wouldn't know WHY she'd want to talk to me. She comes to me, Kai and Maria. Girl: Do you remember me? Me: Uhh...do I KNOW you? Girl: You don't remember? That's when it hit me. She'd lost a Hell of a lot of weight, and looked almost nothing like she used to, but...that voice... Me: lauren... lauren: C'mon, Woofy? Me: lauren... Panic alarms are going off in my mind. What do I do? lauren: We took those pictures with Elva at the mall. Me: lauren... lauren: Yeah! Where have you BEEN? You told me you were moving. Me: I never said anything about moving... lauren: Yeah you did! Me: No, I didn't... lauren: Well...She reaches and pokes my right shoulder Meh. Kai: Er, hey, we're gonna be late for the bus. We've gotta go. lauren: Oh, alright then. I'll let you enjoy your day. Bye! As soon as we were out of earshot (not hard on noisy 4th St. during the Italian Street Painting Festival), I collapsed against Kai in a daze. I wouldn't stop looking over my shoulder, expecting her to be following me, or be just around the corner, lurking. She's back. She came back. Best case scenario: She's just visiting in this area and she'll be heading back to L.A. Worst case scenario: She moved back here, and she's going to come to my house every day, and she'll never leave me alone. I felt sick to my stomach after the encounter. I'm SO grateful for Kai's interjection. She said that as soon as she heard me say "lauren", she knew she had to get me out of there. She also said that my face contorted into something horrified, and I had sort of a freaked-out aura. Can you blame me? I thought it was over. I don't want her to be back. Oh Goddesses...why... And she KNOWS I still live here, now. Because I was so shocked that it made me stupid enough to basically TELL her that I didn't move. s**t. Shitshitshitshitshit. Gods... I have to tell my parents. They don't like her. They won't let her in the house...and Kai and Maria said they'd help....thank din Kai is only a block away...oh Gods... I'm sorry. I'm panicking. You just don't underSTAND. I joke about stalking all the time. Right? Ha ha, Tri made a joke. But this ISN'T a joke. This sucks. I don't want her here. What do I DO...

Posted by: Triforce-Kun Mon Jun 16, 2008 @ 01:02am

Damon Baird is the most amazing cynic in the ******** world.

"There we go, one muzzled queen! But not you, her. You were great, I loved your speech there, especially the b***h-a** stuff. Very good, very enlightening."
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Commented on: Mon Jun 16, 2008 @ 01:32am


	well if this crap keeps going on, there's only one thing I can really think of. One, tell her to LEAVE YOU THE ****** ALONE. If that doesn't work, you should call the police. What she did, and if it keeps up, that st IS illegal. Trust me. This is the kind of crap that Celso used to do to my mom. I suggest that when you tell her to leave you alone though, have a group of friends with you, and do it face to face. There's power in numbers. Make a frikken scene. I've had to do it before too, to a guy that wouldn't leave me alone.

Commented on: Mon Jun 16, 2008 @ 02:21am


	by the sounds of it, sounds scary oO;;; reminds me of this guy... in my high school. He wasn't my stalker, but he gave me a pretty bad vibe... my friend introduced him and from that day forward he came into the room and said hi to me and tried to hug me or ask me personal questions... He started talking to me too..i dreaded every last minute of it...i had hoped he'd go away... Even in our anime club... and then..i heard rumors about this guy..not too good ones either... and then..it got strange with his church... they were to sell newspapers across the county and for some reason..he ends up at the closest post to my house...i dreaded leaving the house on those sat's/sun.'s. anyways...I just tried my best to ignore him and get conversations done quick. But in your case..all i can say...is to come up with an excuse to leave or something each time she comes around... maybe you could try the move thing again..maybe she'll get the hint that you don't want her around...but that's just a way to be mean slightly...

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Commented on: Mon Jun 16, 2008 @ 04:30am


	Well, I would expect you to go off on her if you see her again. And chase her with a stick or something. But maybe that's Tri when she doesn't have a stalker... sweatdrop

Commented on: Mon Jun 16, 2008 @ 04:48am


	Wow. I kinda know the feeling. Sorta. Anyway, I don't know what to say. I suppose you should be upfront with her and tell her you don't want to be around her. However, I'm not sure if that's easier said than done or what. But anyway.. best of luck to you.

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Commented on: Mon Jun 16, 2008 @ 05:14am


	Ooh T-Kun...That really sucks. I'd say get a restraining order, but I doubt the cops would view her as a threat. Grrrr. I'd come over there and be your personal bodyguard if I could... Lauren: "Hey woofy!" Me:"Step AWAY from woofy." evil Not much else I CAN say. Sorry.

Commented on: Mon Jun 16, 2008 @ 06:16pm


	Seems everybody else has the right idea. At this point, it seems the best thing you can do is not-so-subtly tell her to ******** off. Put her e-mails on block, and add whatever addresses she comes at you with next. If you don't want the hassle of that, make a new address and send a e-mail out to your friends using that one, and make the ones she knows of swear to secrecy. DO NOT add it to your address book on the old one, since she may have the ability to look through that. Definitely keep your school contact e-mail address the old one, just in case she happens to have friends/parent's friends that work in the office. Girl's like that are the type to figure out how to break through your password protection to find your friend's email addresses as well. Barring that, she might just go straight to your friend and outright ask. I don't know about your phone, but mine allows setting seperate ringtones to each contact. Have a standard one for everybody, then set it for those not in your list to have a ringtone you usually wouldn't use/don't like. If she has accounts on any of the website's you have one at, set them on ignore or any equal option. The police usually don't help, since she acts like Miss Best Friend. If you see her in public, just turn and walk the other way. Eventually she'll get the message. If she strikes you as mentally unstable, however, the above wouldn't be the best of ideas. EDIT: Your school may also be able to help. If the situation calls for it, they can separate students if the relationship is unhealthy, which this definitely is.

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