Dark-Frando
Ok so this issue is REALLY starting to burn me up and I'm not sure why it's affecting me so badly.
So the issue is this, people are just sleeping around with other people and not really caring about it. I know I'm old school about the whole thing but this is one extreme to another! why why why why why why why (yes that is too few whys) is it like this? does love not exist more than a night now?
I have a friend, a girl he was seeing met a guy yesterday and slept with him last night. Now my friend isn't as clean as a whistle himself but that's just wrong! and I keep getting more and more stories from friends where 'yeah I slept with someone, but decided a week later I didn't like them'
I don't know whos around or what people will have to say to this but I REALLY need to get these issues off my chest before I turn into a demon who wishes to cleanse the world of everyone in one swift movement.
Love you all <3
So the issue is this, people are just sleeping around with other people and not really caring about it. I know I'm old school about the whole thing but this is one extreme to another! why why why why why why why (yes that is too few whys) is it like this? does love not exist more than a night now?
I have a friend, a girl he was seeing met a guy yesterday and slept with him last night. Now my friend isn't as clean as a whistle himself but that's just wrong! and I keep getting more and more stories from friends where 'yeah I slept with someone, but decided a week later I didn't like them'
I don't know whos around or what people will have to say to this but I REALLY need to get these issues off my chest before I turn into a demon who wishes to cleanse the world of everyone in one swift movement.
Love you all <3
Chieftain Twilight
first of all, Love and Sex are two COMPLETELY different things. i hate, and i mean i HATE, when people confuse the two. stare so you can get off your "cleanse the world" high horse right now!
secondly, i am a Slut. i am proud of it in fact. i sleep around, and that is because i like to have Sex, AS LONG AS IT IS ON MY TERMS. i can't imagine that anyone who enjoys Sex doesn't feel like they want it on their own terms.
this doesn't mean that we don't care about our Bedmates/Sexual Partners. but not ALL of our partners are more than prey for us. i can Love some people that ********, as well as some people that i don't ********, and likewise i can ******** people that don't love as well as people that i do. Love and Sex are NOT mutually exclusive (see above).
thirdly, there is no Universal Right and Wrong, or Good and Evil. it's all subjective. and likewise, what's best for one person isn't best for everyone. simply put, some of us NEED to be Monogomous, some of us NEED to be Polygamous/Swingers, and some of us NEED to be sexually conservative. that's fine. but that means we should learn to Live-And-Let-Live, instead of camaigning for some kind of unnessesary standardization.
got it? =_= :pokes your nose.:
