How to break up with a guy without ruining your friendship
stare Well...I was dating this guy, everything was going fine until we kissed. When we kissed it just didn't feel right...it had no "fire" or "sparks" so I broke up with him because I didn't want to be in a relationship with a guy that i felt nothing for, I didn't want to be the kind of girl whose leads on a guy she doesn't even like on and then break his heart. Well after we broke up my friend text me (this friend is also friends with the guy that I broke up with) and said that this guy wanted another chance so I said okay fine. Well today at lunch when i was sitting with the guy i broke up with (but got back together with) i still didn't feel anything so i broke up with him again.
Why i'm telling you this is because what I did was stupid and made the situtation worse, so my advice to you is if you want to break up with a guy that your friends with but don't want to ruin your friendship is just talk to them about how you feel. If their a good friend they'll listen.
I hope my advice helps anyone who is going through something like this please comment or put requests if you have them.
~Mimi 3nodding
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