Lately I've been wondering if something was wrong. When I try to talk ot my fiance I feel bad because I cant think of anything to talk about. I love her to death, but I've never been good at making conversation. We've run to the weakest conversations such as "What are you up to?" and "What you thinking about?" and similar questions that don't go anywhere... ever. I think the problem is that I dont know how to express what I'm thinking about or wanting to say. I want to make my fiance happy, but I just feel like I can't when I have trouble coming up with somthing to say.
I was hoping someone out there had tips for that might help. I know for a fact that she is the one for me, and that we're probly just going through a rough time, but I really want to fix this so I can go back to making her happy. I just feel like most of the time I upset her because of the silence that often comes between us.
Some things you may need to know;
1. This is my first SERIOUS relationship, I've never even concidered marrying anyone before her, nor do I plan on marrying anyone other than her.
2. We don't get to see eachother as often as we would like.
3. We've been together for near a year, November 10th is our one year.
PLEASE HELP, I'm begging. I love her too much to be silent around her. I want to talk to her about topics she likes, but I don't know how to when the topics she likes are topics I don't know much about. sad I love her so much, and it hurts me to think I'm making her upset by not talking.
Takai
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