Hello Gaia. It's me again.
As much as I would like to make this a happy rant about how "wonderful" the week has been, I'm afraid it is not.
So I found out today that my little sister's husband left her. For the second time- when their month old daughter is in the hospital, because he's "not ready for married life yet." I'm furious. I'm worried for her and her baby and I am FURIOUS.
We're technically not sisters by blood, but Kuri (my sister's nickname), and I have known each other long enough that I think of her as family. I feel horrible that this has happened, and I am disgusted with James (the hubby. Who is going to lose his manhood in a horrible accident if he's not careful...... evil )
The sad thing is is that a lot of my friends had doubts about their marriage really working out- but I believed that they could make it. I'm not really a romantic- but those two despite the mistakes they've made seemed like if they tried they really could have pulled it off. then again, what real relation ship doesn't have it's ups and downs, right?
Kuri tried her hardest. She gave her all and wore her heart on her sleeve- and James shredded it, lit it on fire, spat on it, and kicked it right back to her. For a second time.
James left her once before they were married. Kuri had just found out she was pregnant, and James decided it was a good time to see his ex. I don't know what the hell is his problem.
Her mother is staying at her with the hospital to night to watch over her and the baby right now- so she's not alone thank gods- I can't go because of issues with my car. sad All I got to say is Kuri-mama; thank you for being there for her. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. heart
This isn't the first time i've seen a relationship like this fall apart. another close friend of mine, a girl I grew up with and also thought of as a sister- had her first marriage go down the crapper as well. She's happier now at least in her second one with her little girls.
What I want to know is why does this happen? Why is it that two people who seem to really be made for each other go so so wrong? And why is it that one of them always backs out when some serious s**t happens?
I really thought that they could pull through. I really did. I'm kicking myself right now for really believing that they'd worked things out, and it would really work.
Now my sister's hurt and I can't go see her and i'm totally going to bawl my eyes out in a second. crying
James all I have to say to you is that you are a lazy, self-centered, obnoxious, immature prig- and so help me- you do not deserve Krystina or HER baby. I hope that you realize how bad you ******** up when you left them like that one day, because after the pain you put my sister through AGAIN, I hope you have to live with knowing you did that to her, and that you were wrong. I and everyone else who knows you knew that you were to much of a lazy a** to at least get a real job when Kuri was PREGNANT AND WORKING to support you both, but we trusted that you would shape up enough to at least be there, that you would protect her and Isis after she was born. After this all I can say is that I am disappointed. I hope that Krystina can move on and live and be happier without you- And if this ends up in divorce, I don't want to hear you've gone near either of them until Krystina can really trully deal with it. I have no respect for a creep who would abandon his family like that.
 Lillium Sadi · Sun Jul 29, 2012 @ 06:38am · 0 Comments |
