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Water LiquidGirl!!AdiuYHzE 10/02/11(Thu)00:34 No.77581
I've been lurking here on and off out of curiosity for about a year or two now. I find the openness of everyone here very refreshing. Recently I've been thinking about sharing my story. My life has been changing in many ways, I've just started college, and this is the first time in my life I've been open to my peers about my sexuality. Actually they have been surprisingly accepting!

I think and hope some of you may find my story interesting so I've decided to share it.

Since I can remember I've had a fascination with water... ever since I was about 6 I started having obsessive thoughts of breathing in water. I loved to go swimming all the time and I joined teams. My mom set me up for any and all classes and teams she could get me into. My specialty was holding my breath underwater. I could swim from one side of the pool and back underwater. When I wasn't practicing racing or diving I would go to the bottom of the pool and sit and meditate. I would calm myself slowly then listen to my heart beat... it would slow... I would stay under as long as possible. The calmer I was the longer it lasted. I would picture my body, starting at the limbs becoming water. I would picture myself slowly becoming water and the particles of my body fading away and mixing together. It's a hard feeling to explain unless you've personally meditated on it many times. It's a wonderful feeling. This went on until I was 10. I was still completely fixated on breathing in water. I believed it was the final step to feel as if I had completely become water.

My ten birthday was held at the neighborhood pool (of course). It was about midday and half way though my party. I enjoyed playing games in the water and out with the other kids, but at this point everyone was doing their own thing. I went to the bottom to meditate. I had been thinking about it for a few weeks and I felt that it was time to take the last step and breath water. I STRONGLY wanted to. The urge had haunted me for basically my entire life. I hadn't told anyone about it because I didn't think they would understand. Honestly I didn't care if they did. It was something very personal and spiritual to me. So I meditated that day, under the water... and finally I took in a breath... I felt my entire body become water... it didn't hurt even a little. The next thing I remember is being resuscitated by the lifeguard. I remember vomiting up the water out of my lungs and belly. That did sting quiet a bit but as I regained consciousness I felt the water leave me... I felt myself reform. It was almost as good of a feeling as becoming the water was. Reforming later became part of my fetish as well.

My parents automatically thought it was a accident. But I told them how I felt about water and becoming water. They were very worried and sent me to a psychiatrist. The doctor that they sent me to was actually a very good one. He understood what I was trying to say even though at that time I didn't fully understand what spirituality, sexuality, fetishes, or meditation, was. He helped me understand it and didn't judge me at all. He talked to my parents and told them that I was showing early signs of having a transformation fetish. He told them it was more common than it sounded. He also told them that it wasn't sexual because at this point I was too young to have a completely developed sense of sexuality, but he predicted that it would be my 'orientation' when I got older. I continued to see him once a month for a few years. My parents cautiously let me swim again because of my doctors advice. I had a pretty normal teenagehood and childhood besides this. Just as my doctor predicted I do have a transformation fetish. Reforming is a part of it as well. I often think about my experience 'drowning' which was something wonderful to me. I've gone to group meetings for people who have rare fetishes like objectum sexuality and transformation. They all were very different from me. I've never met someone who has the same fetish I do. Still it helped me feel more accepted and made it easier to talk about with other people.

Besides the water transformation fetish I have a cosmic transformation fetish as well. Reforming is always a good part of it.

I'm pretty positive that I will never be attracted to humans or normal sex and I'm fine with that. It's hard for people to understand at first but I'm completely open about it and still accepted by others. There was a time I was very shy and ashamed of it but now I'm not. I hope everyone here can feel the same way. And that's my story. Also, I'm posting a few pictures that remind me of this. The pictures themselves I can't masturbate to but they do remind me of how it feels.