I have watched many forms of the break-ups, the fights, the make-ups, forgivness. I don't sit dazed for long periods of time for nothing. I have observed, I have read, and I see it.
It all starts with...
-=~Sighting~=-
This is where one or the both notice something different and either start talking or make plans to go further
Kinds of relation ships
-=~Relations~=-
This is when the couple starts off and goes all baby talk, Speeches of love and speak of going to the end of the world for one another, Saying cheesy things using flowery language that in the end is just talk. Even if there are heartfelt feelings
-=~Googoo~=-
This is where the relationship is all speacial and little things are meaningful to the couple. Gossip is on them constantly between buds. They have their little secret meanings, speacial areas, and little things they do to one another out of the eyes of others that they go to bed blushing about.
Problems...
-=~Fighting~=-
This is typical when little things get said and people get one others nerves. "What did you call my friend?!" or "C'mon I was just ******** joking!"="But you know I don't like when you make fun of me!!" More gossip starts and the two start finding ways to get on the others nerves even if they have strong feelings for one another.
-=~b***h factor-=~
This is when something major happens, Whether it be inconsiderate to a death, not paying enough attentin or even going on a trip. A minute seperation occurs and the two fight like it is the end of the world. Yet when the two are reunited one insists on still being cruel and hurtful not being able to bring their joy and happiness on sight of their beloved. They become bitter and like a woman I used to live with start taking almost an unpleasent joy in their significant other's torment.
Make-ups...
-=~Talking it over~=-
This is when one royally ******** up and the relationship is on the line. Their voice turns to sincere and they try and lure the other into security so that they may "Talk it over" this is a seemingly heartfelt, sit down conversation where they are alone or with people who are just as comforting.Usually this works and they are together for another week.
-=~Verbal present for you~=-
Usually a poetic "Im sorry" mixed with "you don't know how much you mean to me"
-=~Publicity stunt~=-
Usually only seen in movies when one goes into the public to make a fool of themself to win back the heart of their loved one after messing up big time(also used when they broke up)
Break-ups...
-=~******** this~=-
Usually the break-up caused by one not being able to handle the others crap. Be it too much poking fun, cheating/flirting, just too bitchy etc etc etc.
-=~Exhaust~=-
After being together to long and the rut is so deep there is no getting out. No spark can be set and the two of them have done everything together and nothing else exciting is left to do.
-=~Abuse~=-
When one spouse is abusive verbally, mentally or physically to the point that "Love is not enough"
Afterwards...
-=~I can't get them out of my mind!!!!~=-
Simply put when one cannot stop thinking about the othe; their touch their love. Everything. Lamost to the point it drives them mad.
-=~Ican't come out to play~=-
When so heartbroken the don't want to go out into the sun with their friends. Sulking in their beds inside crying (or outside) about what they lost.
-=~Call for me???-=~
When they sit at the phone or the computer waiting.. Just waiting... Sending messages, leaving PMs. Anything...to know that the other acknowledges them.
Restarts...
-=~ Hi what's your name?~=-
The attempts to keep a friendship by pretending that there was nothing between them. Forgetting about it but the funny thing is is nomatter how hard they act like this when they are around one another it is all they think about. This usually is the start of a "Boomerang"
-=~ Boomerang-=~
This is usually a break up that happens not one but at least twice. They come back for another relationship to relight the tinders only to make the boomerang fly out again in a matter of no time.
-=~Give me another chance~=-
The pleading area which the other cannot let go and wants to be with the other so bad they just want another chance to make things works.
Moving on...
-=~Obliterate~=-
This is when al ties are cut and they never hear from one another for a long time is even forever. New spouses, new friends and not a care of their ex.
-=~Rebound~=-
The relationship to get them back on their feet after the hard fall from paradise. Even though it isn't fair to the person who is the rebound the relationship does not last long at all.
-=~Revenge~=-
This is the kind of moving on that can lead to a restraining order. Where the one does something so inconceivable that manny are left with their mouths agape as to "Oh thats just cold"
-=~Friends?~=-
Where the two agree it was fun while it lasted and now all they can do is just hang out now because there is no actual "love" relationship, just friends.
So there. My cycle of what most go through in their teenage years.
Anything I missed? Be sure to comment.
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I know that nobody reads this but this is what I have seen to be true. This was inspired by many people
 Momosai · Wed Nov 16, 2005 @ 05:15am · 2 Comments |
