Today I went somewhere and missed school. Haha. Sucks to be you if you were expecting me there. Hah... Anyways- wasss up? Well you know what? Today I am in a bad mood. eek Thats right, I am in a bad mood. I think I mood swinging because a second ago I was singing and laughing and having a blast. Now I am pissed. Whoopde-freaken-do... So I think I will rant.
When I was at my... *ehem* place today I overheard a convo between a daughter- her boyfriend- and her mother. The boyfriend was not there- just on the other line of the phone the girl despritly had shoved over her ear. The mother though was disapproving. "The sign says no phones on when inside." She told the daughter. The daughter rolled her eyes and kept gushing on. A minute before I heard the person at the window say she was skitsafrinzic (sp). Yah. Thats right. (btw everyone who are afraid of people with mental disorders can SUCK MY NONEXISTENT.... ehem.... jawbreakers. ^_^''') Anyways, the mother finaly said in a nice voice, "Honey, we came here together because I want you to know how much I love you..." her voice trailed off as she reached for the phone but the girl went into a frenzy after that. "No!" She screamed (she was around 17 btw) "I do NOT love you." She stomped her foot and then carefully lay them on the coloring table in front of her. The mother for a minute started talking in a low whisper so I could not hear her, but then the girl got even madder and thats when I could hear them both screaming at another. The mother complained that her daughter was being irrational and used the phrase, "what kind of daughter hates their mother?!" (that made me laugh, inside... joke I guess) Then after some bickering in witch I have forgotten what was said I heard the daughter say, "Don't take my phone away! I love him!" Thats what got me listening. "You only have known him for what (I forgot, but it was less then three weeks about) days?!" Daughter then stomped her foot again and said, "I have known him FOREVER!" She was obviously over exaggerating and the mother then quietly began talking lowly, but I heard her easily for her voice was still loud from anger, "yet you have only gotten to know him for (insert date here XD), And yet you have known me since birth yet you don't love me?" I had to go then because it was my turn... up, but anyways I just felt horrified by that conversation.
I think people forgot what the definition of "love" is- poisoned by todays media. On the movie "enchanted" It was corny and horrible- that guy left a girl he had been dating for five years for a girl he met less then five days. That is not love. There is no such thing as falling in love in less then five days. Also, when people have small little crushes on others, they use words like, "love" to describe it. Uh, HELLO IN THERE?! You are not going out with them or anything but you "love" them? You know what my Papaya used to say? "If you have not slept with her- gone on five dates- and told her your real name then you are not in "love"' with her. Lol to the "told her your real name" part but that is so right. Time is love. There is no love at first sight. It grows and builds after experiences with that person. It is not formed by simply looking at the back of their head in the middle of class and instantly thinking, "I am in love."
In love wannabes is what I would like to call the people that are still childish to do this- Tell multiple girls/guys he/she loves them. It is just like... HELLO IN THERE?! (Haha times two!) COME ON! Once the girl turns them down they are in love with another girl the next day. I call it stalkerish and horrifyingly disgusting. Only evil can lie about being in love with another. BTW I have only worded this for men, but I guess I should women too... "Once the boy turns them down they are in love with another boy the next day" There, now gay, bi, boys, and girls (...<3) can read this. Do they know how much of an IDIOT they look to everyone around them? Every time I hear a love wannabe talk about the new person they love I just stare right through them because it is all a lie.
All in all, time, cooperation from both sides of the relationship, loyalty, and a great bond that was formed slowly is what " love" is, so don't soil it and say you are in love-when you are not.
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